Are you skilled at decoding male psychology? Do you know how to read your man? Do you know what he wants and how to keep him happy? Men can be very difficult to understand. Most of the time men don't even understand themselves, let alone what kind of woman they want. Fortunately, psychologists and relationship experts know a little something about the male mind and are able to make sense of what they find therein. With a little understanding of how the male mind works we can get to work decoding male psychology and figure out exactly what it is that men want from their women.
The common misconception is that men only care about how women appear on the outside. We are told that men want their women to be little more than sex objects. By decoding male psychology we've learned that this isn't true at all. Women who dress and act in a way that only appeals to men's frivolous nature only ever get what's coming to them. By putting on a miniskirt and flashing your particulars in a bar you might be able to get a man's attention, you might even be able to get men crawling all over you, but this will only ever be temporary. Women who dress and behave this way might appear to get all the men but have you ever seen them with the same man for more than a few days?
The truth is that men get very bored of loose women very quickly. They might think that it's what they want but it never really is. What men really want is a woman who is confident, intelligent and respectable. They want somebody who they can have a great conversation with. Somebody who will engage their minds and their hearts as much as their underwear elastic. Somebody who they can relax with but is also capable of making them feel exhilarated. Somebody they can trust and be themselves with. Somebody, according to Sigmund Freud, like their mothers. They also want a little mystery, so that there is always something more for them to discover and to keep them entertained.
The trouble is that men very rarely realize what it is they want from a girl. They usually go with their instincts rather than what is actually good for them. So how can you get a guy's attention if you're the kind of girl a guy should be with, rather than the type of girl he usually ends up with?
First of all, you should use your confidence to get yourself noticed. Confidence is more attractive than any pair of fake breasts. Show him exactly what he's missing out on. Instead of lowering yourself to the same standards as cheap girls and vying for his attention, try to play cool instead. Playing hard to get is a great way to add a little mystery to your appeal and will help to keep his attention.
Like other girls it's OK to dress in a way that will make you look attractive and show off your best features (just don't show them off all at once). The trick is to maintain your dignity at the same time. Try wearing things that are attractive in a more sophisticated way. This will add to your mystique and will help you appear more unattainable. Men always want what they can't have and they enjoy a challenge, so don't be afraid to put yourself on a pedestal.
By decoding male psychology we've learned that there are two types of women men are attracted to - it's up to you to decide whether you play it the right way or the wrong way.
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