What Men REALLY Want In A Relationship

As an employee, is your intuition awesome when it comes to interface with your boss, but are you at a loss when it comes to interpreting what men want from you as a woman? Do you treat your love life like a business deal and find it hard to leave your professional persona at work? Are you confused when men say they like women that take the initiative but don't respond to your driven personality? This is dilemma of today's career driven woman and to answer these questions she must delve into the mind of the modern man. Once you decipher what he wants, you must learn how to act upon it.
The sense of exhilaration that a man feels when he is in the midst of the "chase" keeps him interested and oftentimes women must depend on this feeling to carry them through the early stages of a relationship. In order to keep this feeling alive and thriving, a man needs to feel as if he is missing out on something. In order to maintain this feeling you must feed the fire.

Remember that at the most basic level men want a stable relationship with a loving, compatible person; just like a woman. This lover is their friend, is confident and self assured. Oftentimes men are drawn to women that appear irresponsible, unpredictable and cheap. However, men make hasty decisions, don't think things through, and by the time they realize that their desires don't align with what is right in front of them, it's too late.
After examining what men really want, there still remains one question, what should a modern day career woman do if she wants to become a sexy, hunk-wealthy, knockout in today's world?

• Manage in some mystery and intrigue - Men like a little mystery in the relationship. By answering the phone every time he calls and giving him the details on everything you did that day, you eradicate all surprise and oftentimes he will become bored and the relationship will become stale.


• Dress the part - Find a balance between miniskirts, flashy, cleavage baring tops and leather jackets and your conservative, career attire.


• Let him take the wheel - While you feel comfortable in the driver's seat he may be a little freaked out if you make all the executive decisions. If you want a man, not a sidekick, then it is crucial for you to sit back and relax (and everyone knows that it's nice to be taken care of every now and then). Some men veer away from strong driven women because they fear being emasculated. If you let him make the moves then he will feel comfortable in the relationship and he will realize that his masculinity is safe.

So there you have a few tips to put into action to make a modern man fall in love with a career, driven woman like yourself. All men need is a little bit of understanding. If you can understand why they choose a date, how they make decisions and how they react to being ignored, then you will see that men really do like strong women after all.