worse.
Is it worth the risk? Is it better to just forget about it and move on?
Before you decide to cut your losses and save what's left of your shattered heart, you should know that couples who break up and are able to rekindle the flames of their lost love, often create a stronger, tougher bond than couples who have never broken up. The actual act of breaking up and reconciling, regardless of who did the breaking up or how long they've been broken up, can actually be the beginning of a new relationship that fulfills both partners and can endure almost any situation that comes their way.
Rekindled relationships have a habit of becoming forever relationships.
You have a reason to be optimistic. All you have to do is to find a way to win back that lost love of yours. I have studied and applied many different methods, ranging from old-fashioned advice to modern, cutting-edge systems, that can get an ex begging to get back together. I have helped many friends, relatives, and even strangers successfully get back their ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends. I can assure you that it's definitely possible, in almost any circumstance, and once you ignite that first spark of the flames of reconciliation, you create the beginnings of a powerful, new relationship that can exceed anything you ever thought possible.
Second chance relationships have such a high success rate for many reasons. For one, you share a history with each other and, more than likely, a large number of common experiences. You already have a vast area of common ground that instantly and automatically connects you to one another. These connections creates an almost immediate, rock-solid foundation for the new relationship that you didn't have at the start of your previous relationship. It is a major advantage that sets up the second chance for success.
Another reason reconciled couples tend to stay together and live happier has to do with the emotional nature of any relationship and how the brain processes and stores these emotional memories. Your past relationship was likely full of emotion. These emotional experiences are stored in a primitive area of the brain that has been shown to have a strong influence over your actions and decisions. Memories stored in this part of the brain very strong and very difficult to forget. In fact, Alzheimer's patients who have forgotten large chunks of their everyday lives will still vividly recall the memories stored in this part of the brain. Those memories play a strong role in energizing the new relationship for both partners, often fueling a passion that didn't exist the first time around. As you know, without passion no relationship can survive.
The break you two have from each other also helps to ignite a raging passion in the new relationship. Not only can the time apart cause you to miss each other more, but it also intensifies the attraction you have for one another. If you can find that reconnection with each other, this attraction can grow very quickly into a stronger, almost indestructible love.
Finally, your time apart allows both of you to figure out what went wrong and to improve themselves. Those people who are successful at rekindling their romance are the ones who used the failed relationship to learn about themselves. Even if these people weren't able to or didn't want to change completely, they were able to find ways they could compromise. Once they were back together with their ex, they were in a better position to make the relationship work. In a way, the people getting back together aren't the same people who broke up. The people getting back together are improved versions of themselves. It's no wonder these two €new€ people are able to make things work the second time around.
Don't lose heart. Just because your relationship is over right now, doesn't mean that it's over for good. As study after study has shown, couples who manage to find their way back to each other often build a relationship that's not only stronger and happier, but forever. In some cases, it may be best to move on, and you do need to be honest with yourself to figure out if this is true for your circumstance, but understand that giving up is not the only choice. Rekindled romances with lost loves have a tendency to succeed. Take some time for yourself. Let that past relationship guide you into becoming a better person, but don't obsess over it. If you manage to get back together with the €one that got away€, you may find that yourself happily traveling on that elusive smooth road that seems to go on forever.
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